Cultivate as you Wait

I was getting impatient.

Sitting in the hard, uncomfortable chairs, my son and I were hoping his name would be called next.  Even with an appointment, we waited two hours at the DMV for his driving test this week.  The good news is he passed, but the bad news is that I kept complaining while we were waiting.    

Waiting is hard. 

In our fast-paced world where we can get information at the touch a button or a package delivered the next day, it is no wonder that we struggle with waiting. 

What if we looked at waiting with a different perspective? 

I just finished reading a book called Cultivate by Lara Casey.  She looks at life through the lens of gardening, and I loved what she shared about waiting.  Listen to this quote, “In the wait we are refined. Changed. Readied for whatever He has ahead for us.  Times of waiting are times of ripening.”

Have you ever taken a bite out of a piece of fruit that has not completely ripened?  I tried eating a peach that I thought was ripe; however, it was hard, juiceless, and tasted so bad that I had to spit it out.  It needed more time to ripen.

Just like fruit needs time to ripen, we need time to grow into the person God created us to be.

Growing involves waiting. Waiting for God to prepare us, teach us, and ready us for all He has planned. Instead of complaining about the wait, what if we saw the wait as a gift.  I love what Lara says in her book, “In the wait, cultivate.”

What do you need to cultivate as you wait? 

Lara gives us lots of action words for cultivate: “serve, nurture, nourish, prepare, encourage, improve, refine, pay attention, foster growth, loosen and break up hard ground, and care for what you’ve been given.”

Maybe you need to nourish your soul by reading God’s word regularly or perhaps you need to break up hard ground and identify a trigger that keeps you stuck.  Using the cultivate list above, I recommend picking an action word that you want to work on during your wait.

Friends, I know that waiting can be hard.  I am in a season of waiting on God’s timing for my book and there are times that I want to rush the process. 

But just like we cannot rush fruit to ripen, we cannot rush God’s timing in our life either.

When you begin to doubt His perfect timing, I want you to go to the store and buy your favorite fruit.  As you bite into it and taste all its goodness from waiting to be fully ripened, I want you to remember that God is doing the same for you as you wait to fully ripen!

Love, Jodi


  1. Charla on July 19, 2019 at 4:08 pm

    Ooo, Jodi. Now that sounds like a book I could sink my spiritual teeth into. Thank you for taking the time to share!

    • Jodi Rosser on July 19, 2019 at 7:17 pm

      Thanks Charla! It truly was a phenomenal book that I highly recommend.

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